Monday, November 26, 2012

没有大舅的日子:第1259天

Without Social Network, for now...

As at this morning I had deactivated my Twitter account. For almost two years of using Twitter, I had NEVER once deactivated my Twitter account.

(At this moment) it had been more than eight hours since I deactivated my Twitter account. I PROMISED to stay away for AT LEAST a day, just 24 hours... I can do it!

Life took a 180 degrees change when I joined Twitter. Initially, it was very boring. I rarely follow anyone. I found some of my F6 classmates later and the Twitter circle had expanded. I fell in love with this micro-blogging site, 'madly'. I Tweet more than 30 times a day, according to some Twitter statistics.  Take the amount of 30 Tweets a day. There is 24 hours a day, which means I Tweet 1.25 Tweets per hours. In a matter of fact, I think it is more than 1.25 Tweets per day. That was just a rough calculation.

I read this article entitled "A Twitter over 'death'". The columnist stated, "I felt so isolated because I could not connect with my Twitter friends and share the frustration that Twitter was down... It is not as if I'm a Twitter addict. I've stopped tweeting while I'm having a meal with someone. I can live without Twitter".

I am feeling isolated right this moment because I feel disconnected to Twitter-sphere. I might have missed something today. The columnist also stated that he got the news of a journalist killed in Somalia from a user. Similar to him, I got the news of a bomb scare in the Shah Alam courts from a Twitter user who happens to be a lawyer.

Twitter is indeed a nice space to 'hang around'. You tend to meet different kind of people that you followed, they followed you or both of you follows each other. I also love those sarcastic jokes on Twitter from various accounts.
What I do mostly on Twitter are bant-and-rant, gossip with my girl or sometimes guy friends, and interact with other users.
I thought I'll be clean from social network sites for today... However I can't hold my 'addiction' of going online. Think about it what do people ACTUALLY do when they surf the Internet? Before the Facebook and Twitter domination era, I surf the net mainly on YouTube and looking at the entertainment news. I spent an average of four hours online in two days. Nevertheless, times had changed dramatically. There is 24 hours a day, and still I feel that I don't have enough time to online. To accommodate my convenience of web-surfing, I switched to a data plan on my mobile so that I can be online for most of my walking hours. The only time I'm 'offline' would be the time I'm asleep. For the past eight hours, there were many thing I had came across that I wanted to Tweet. Wait! My account was deactivated and I (strongly) promised myself that I stay away for AT LEAST or MINIMUM 24 hours.
OK, I CAN DO it! (The statement doesn't sound convincing huh?)

There were some things that I came across for the past eight hours that I WOULD Tweet, given that my account is active;

1. "Being a Grammar Nazi of BM! Ha, ha, ha!"
2. "Girls, don't 'over-make up' on yourself. I can't recognize you when you're not in make up"
3. "Can I please have my desired subject for my final sem, please?!"
4. "LOL! Accountants are indeed calculative. They won't let go even for a cent!"
5. "Who wants 'souvenirs'?! Ha, ha, ha!!!"


Writer's note: I DON'T think that I can actually survive a day without Twitter. This deactivating serves as a fasting for me. Although I can survive without Facebook, I can't live a day without Twitter. Currently I am trying very hard, not to go to Twitter web to reactivate my account...


Monday, November 5, 2012

没有大舅的日子:第1238天

好人,坏人 2。。。

(说实的,很久没有写中文了)

继两年前的标题“好人,坏人”,重新在写多一片关于当好人或坏人的心语录。

很多人爱‘好人’因为他常为别人着想。
很多人讨厌,甚至恨坏人因为他常作出让人不满意的事。

你到底是个好人或者坏人?

在现实生活中,我领悟到每个人抱着各自的想法,理念。大家因顾及别人的感受,经常把自己摆在次位。我并非鼓励要把自己弄得自私点,而是要大家静思考,那些常顾及别人的想法,感受,终究是不是把自己的想法及理念都丢在一旁?
以前的我,原以为对别人好,他们因此会对你好。不该说一些伤害别人的话语。。。
但,哑忍并非好事。我领略到其实对一些事物哑忍,反而造成更大的伤害。那这些人,间接当上了‘坏人’。。。

’坏人’被视为破坏者。每天跟其他人对立。
倒过来,我反而欲‘称赞’这些坏人因为他们的敢作敢言。他们只不过想追求自己的梦想,而往往跟其他人闹意见不和。
他们是因为与别不同而被人讨厌?这未免太不公平了!

对我而言,我认为我自己(大部分时间)是个坏人。那是因为我是那种口出狂言的人,自主意大,我行我素的那类。我不会完完全全认同一个理念,经常要反驳。
就是这种性格导致我许多人际关系破裂。。。
我也有‘好人’的方面。如果某某人欲要我帮忙,我尽全力帮他。

好人:常为他人着想,事事将自己放在第二位,抱着‘我为人人’精神。
坏人:执着,为自己而想,敢作敢为。


结论,每个人可以选择当个好人及坏人,在不一样的情况里。

附上侧田的‘好人’以及方炯镔的‘坏人’。(应景了吧。。。)